Do you want a better marriage? Let go of your grudge.
A grudge is a feeling of resentment that you might have because of an insult or some kind of injury in the past.
And it may be very valid. I’m not saying that the hurt feelings you might hold aren’t valid. What I’m saying is if you can’t hold onto a grudge and your marriage at the same time.
So do whatever you have to do to let go of that resentment. Do what you have to do to heal from the injury.
If you want a better marriage, let go of your grudge.